Ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7ok ba\u015fka bir y\u00f6nde ilerlemeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Asl\u0131nda bu durum pek \u00e7ok ki\u015finin d\u00f6nem d\u00f6nem ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman da \u201cNeden ben!\u201d diye isyan etti\u011fi olduk\u00e7a yayg\u0131n bir durum. Peki ya k\u00f6t\u00fc olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz bu olaylar, asl\u0131nda hayal etti\u011finiz hayata ula\u015fabilmeniz i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktalar\u0131ysa? \u0130\u015fte, \u00fcnl\u00fc ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 d\u00f6vme sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Bar\u0131\u015f Ye\u015filba\u015f\u2019\u0131n hayat\u0131 da tam olarak bu do\u011frultuda \u015fekillendi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
Lise ve \u00fcniversiteyi Ankara\u2019da okuyan Bar\u0131\u015f Ye\u015filba\u015f, lise d\u00f6neminde \u201cgarip\u201d ve \u201cde\u011fi\u015fik\u201d gibi s\u0131fatlarla an\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. Bunun nedenlerinden biriyse ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ve s\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131 boyamas\u0131ym\u0131\u015f. Hatta, boyad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131ray\u0131 g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in di\u011fer s\u0131n\u0131flardan gelenler bile oluyormu\u015f! \u00c7izmek ve boyamak hayat\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen \u00fcniversitede Ekonomi okumaya karar vermi\u015f. Durum b\u00f6yle olunca da boyama, \u00e7izmeye ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman azalm\u0131\u015f, ama notlar\u0131n\u0131n kenarlar\u0131nda hep \u00e7izimler yaparm\u0131\u015f; yani \u00e7izimi hayat\u0131ndan hi\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131karmam\u0131\u015f. Yanl\u0131\u015f b\u00f6l\u00fcm se\u00e7mesinin s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, zorlu\u011funu her g\u00fcn hissetmi\u015f. Okula gitmek istememeler, gidip derse girmemeler derken \u00fcniversitedeki alt\u0131nc\u0131 y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda okulu b\u0131rakmaya karar vermi\u015f. Ailesine durumu anlatm\u0131\u015f ve onlar da durumu anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131lam\u0131\u015flar. Sonras\u0131nda \u0130stanbul\u2019da \u201cD\u0131\u015f Ticaret Uzman\u0131\u201d olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f, ama \u00fc\u00e7 ay sonra keyfekeder bir \u015fekilde kovulmu\u015f. Ertesi g\u00fcn, evde oturmamak i\u00e7in gitti\u011fi ve \u00f6nceki y\u0131llarda d\u00f6vmelerini yapt\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 st\u00fcdyodaki i\u015f teklifinin ise ona mutlu bir hayat\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131ndan elbette ki haberi yokmu\u015f. Ge\u00e7ici olarak yap\u0131lan asistanl\u0131k teklifini har\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in kabul etmesi, Bar\u0131\u015f Ye\u015filba\u015f\u2019\u0131n kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek konusunda att\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk ad\u0131m olmu\u015f!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHayat\u0131m\u0131 anlatmay\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok seviyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlara ilham verdi\u011fimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.\u201d diyor Bar\u0131\u015f Ye\u015filba\u015f. \u0130lham dolu hik\u00e2yesine do\u011fru k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck, ancak etkileyici bir yolculuk yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ise onun pek de haks\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 mutlulukla ke\u015ffediyoruz…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayata bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m, hep onun iyi taraf\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek \u00fczerine kurulu; asla \u201cBu neden benim ba\u015f\u0131ma geldi!\u201d diye s\u00f6ylenip a\u011flamad\u0131m. Demek ki b\u00f6yle olmas\u0131 gerekiyormu\u015f diyerek hep ileriye gitmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ama bu 1 g\u00fcnde olmad\u0131 tabii. \u0130\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmam beni inan\u0131lmaz etkilemedi, hatta neredeyse hi\u00e7 etkilemedi. Ya da ben \u00f6yle san\u0131yordum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda \u015funu fark ediyorum: E\u011fer ben i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmasayd\u0131m belki h\u00e2l\u00e2 o i\u015fi yap\u0131yor olurdum. Ya da d\u00f6vme st\u00fcdyosu bana i\u015f teklif etmeseydi akl\u0131m\u0131n ucundan bile d\u00f6vmeci olmay\u0131 ge\u00e7irmezdim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat size sunulan f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 nas\u0131l de\u011ferlendirdi\u011finize bakar; bu f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmek ve ad\u0131m atmak hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. Bir nevi Jim Carrey\u2019nin Yes Man<\/em> filmindeki karaktere benzetirim kendimi. E\u011fer ben arkada\u015f\u0131ma, bana i\u015f teklif etti\u011finde \u201cEvet\u201d demeseydim \u0130stanbul\u2019a gelemeyecektim, d\u00f6vme st\u00fcdyosu i\u015f teklifi etti\u011finde de durum ayn\u0131. Bu ve bunun gibi bir\u00e7ok olay var asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131mda, b\u00fct\u00fcn gidi\u015fat\u0131 bir anda de\u011fi\u015ftiren… <\/p>\n\n\n\n